Being the second child, what qualities does the first one get to learn?

 Nowadays, many couples are thinking of having only one child. The main reason for this is considered to be rising prices. Parents are afraid that after having more than one child, they will be able to take care of them well. Instead, they think of providing quality education, healthy food and nurturing to their children.

This thinking seems to have made the habit of living alone in today's children. It seems that the habit of living together with each other is disappearing. Which is clearly reflected in the child's behavior.

Benefits of having a second child

Quality of responsibility

If there is a younger child in the family, the first-born child feels that he is older. Gradually, he realizes the responsibility of helping his parents in small tasks. Not only this, he learns to play, have fun and take care of his younger siblings who do their own work.

Properties of Partnerships

When the first child is alone. He thinks that everything around him is mine. Therefore, he does not accept to give his toys or other things to others. Because of this, sometimes parents have to feel ashamed. But as soon as the second child is born, he learns to share his toys, clothes, room, food. Which is an important quality of a child.

Often an only child is stubborn. He gets angry at the smallest things and is considered a jerk. You can see a change in his behavior when he has siblings. There is a feeling of helping and caring for each other. He finds a friend who matches his heart. Who plays with and establishes a strong relationship with each other.

Second pregnancy experience

Sometimes they do not plan to have a second child because they remember the pain of the first pregnancy. But women prepare themselves so that such risk and pain do not come in the second pregnancy. It minimizes risks and problems.

Things to keep in mind

Never plan a second child under peer pressure. First you have to make yourself capable for the second child. If you are financially strong, your health is completely good, planning for a second child will confirm happiness.

If the mother is an office worker or a housewife, she is not able to give time to the child. And, giving birth to a second child reduces the mother's worry about the loneliness of the child. The first child's toys, clothes, books are useful for the second child. Both the children should be given equal love and attention and should get used to spending quality time.